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The Questions

How can I say goodbye when I don’t want to?
What if I love someone, and we are no longer together but he/she is moving away?
Can you please explain why some people keep returning to each other after repeated break-ups?
How do I stop thinking about the past and hoping for the future?
What do I do […]

Up until a few months ago, I always looked at “alpha males” in completely negative terms. I saw them as pretentious, obnoxious, cocky and arrogant. The only reason they got women, I thought, was because women are lame, dense, and go for pricks. The alpha males’ success has nothing to do with them, I said, […]

In an ongoing effort to truly understand the ‘psyche’ of modern women, an Australian dating company has been conducting real-life, interactive research since early 2004. So far, the researchers have met, spoken and flirted with over 6,000 women from all across Australia. The findings present the most cutting-edge insights into modern women and the dating […]

When in a serious relationship and in love with someone, if the relationship falters and you are not receiving the love that you deserve, you will most probably reach a point of wanting to end the relationship. There are two ways of saying “goodbye”, a real one and a false one. It is imperative to […]

Each relationship combines two individual stories to coauthor a new relationship story. The implicit contracts authored by each party in a relationship become unspoken assumptions that can facilitate or derail the relationship.
A crucial part of communication in a relationship is to make explicit the hidden assumptions and implicit expectations. To see the point of view […]

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We all tend to operate in a comfort zone or habitual manner. Certain ways of being and interacting with others feel safe to us and so that’s how we tend to live our lives. This is especially so when it comes to couples. There’s nothing wrong with having a comfort zone. However, when you […]