Women & Men Behind The Words

Thu, Jun 26, 2008

Now, I’ll talk about the other side of first date. Everybody worry about what to say or what our date thinks about us but we forget very important aspect of the equation and this is the Body Language.

Our body can tell us the real story about the feelings of our partner. If you sit in a date and all you is just wondering what your date thinks about you, today is your lucky day, because I’ll show you how to recognize your date’s feeling by using the body language techniques.

Let’s start with the signals:

The ring:

When the woman holds or plays with her ring, with the right eye contact, mean’s she is interested in you. I can give you very good tip in order to increase the attraction in you.

When you see that she is playing with her ring, pay her attention to this and ask to see her ring, by the way you will touch in her fingers and this is will increase the
chemistry between of you.

On the other hand, when woman puts in and out her ring, that is mean she wants you and she wants you now!

I’ll leave you alone to think what I mean by saying this.

The hair:

The womanly hair plays main part from the courting game.
When woman plays with her hair or rolling curl between her figures, that’s mean she likes you and this act is like saying look what I have to offer.

Exposure of the neck takes the attention to the face and send signal of: “look at me”…

The palm:

Our hands in general and our palms specially could tell us a lot of about the feelings of our date. When your date hide the palms from you or close it from you, that’s mean she is looking for protection from you.

Open palms send positive frankness, desire for touches and communication with you.

Mirroring:

The safe signal that she is interested in you is when she copies your body language.

The smile:

The smile can tell you a lot about her interest and how she feels about the date with you.

You need to be careful before you understand and get any conclusion. Usually, the smile comes with touches and open palm so remember this before you get your conclusion and always you need to look for more than the smile as a positive or negative signal.

Also, if she doesn’t smile at all, it’s ok, this is says that she is excited and tense as much as you do but your mission here is let her laugh as much as you can.

When she smile to you, pay careful attention about the kind of her smile, is it close and short or her face become shining?

Accidental touch:

In those cases this is absolutely not accidental touches and this is the last tool that woman will use to draw the attention of the man.

When she touches in your leg or in your arm, this is positive signal. Always look for those touches and be ready to them.

On the other hand, you should try to send some accidental touches to see and to check what her respond to your touch is.

If she let you touch her, so this is positive signal and if she doesn’t let you, by taking away her leg or her arm from you, this is negative signal and here you need to check and to see what you did wrong and how you can improve your impression on her.

For conclusion, you need to remember that body language is like a sentence, you can’t understand what the meaning of sentence with one word and you need to know the entire sentence in order to understand the meaning.

In the body language world, you need to look for at least four signals in order to get a conclusion about her interest in you.

After you finish the checking, you need to check the level of her voice, is it soft? Or she is yelling at you?
Finally, you need to check what she said, is she say short sentences or long one?

All of this will give you the entire picture about her interest in you.